Opposites attract — then they have to live together

Opposites attract — then they have to live together. Similarity in values predicts relationship success far better than 'we balance each other out.'

Why it matters

Lasting relationships are predictable in ways chemistry alone is not. Decades of relationship research point to the same conclusion: shared values, communication style, and how two people handle conflict matter far more than a first-date spark.

Key takeaways

• Opposites attract — then they have to live together. Similarity in values predicts relationship success far better than 'we balance each other out.'
• Shared values predict long-term satisfaction better than shared hobbies.
• How a couple handles conflict is compatibility, not the absence of it.

How Nonna helps

Nonna scores every potential match across a 99-question model — values, communication style, life goals and dealbreakers — so the science of compatibility is something you can see, not guess at.